Monday 19 May 2008

The Devil loves secrecy

That gem was a throwaway comment from Archie.

When I'm really struggling with some sin or nurturing some unhealthy attachment, its hold is loosed when I just name it with a Christian friend. Isn't it funny?

2 comments:

Simone R. said...

Thanks for this. On the whole I agree... But I've a couple of reservations. Perhaps it comes down to how godly a friend you have.

I've blogged my thoughts.
www.simone1975.blogspot.com

Like your site!

Honoria said...

Good point. Transparency is not always appropriate. We often dump on people inappropriately. It's wise to choose a trustworthy, godly sibling.

I like your example: when we confess and people say "me too!" it 'normalizes' sin (nice verbage).

Perhaps as listeners we should be careful not to empathize just to ease people's feelings. Yes, it's loving to acknowledge people's feelings.

But perhaps acknowledge the awfulness of sin and the right response "yeh, hating is pretty awful. I agree it's worth repenting over."

In 1 Corinthians 5:1-5, Paul says that people should grieve over sin.